It always makes me sad , as a firstmom, to hear of the sadness we still inflict upon our children that were relnquished...even unintentionally! I know you speak if bsibs, etc., and this is most definately a tough process for those sibs. Especially when ill-feelings are towards your firstdad. It is IMPOSSIBLE for these bsibs to know, what it is you seek. They cannot know know because they are not the ones following in this journey. I have th utmost compassion for all outside the immediate triad...HOWEVER...I feel the child (adoptee) relinquished has EVERY right to know of where they come...no exceptions. If you are a (SECRET) it was not by your doing, You have prepared yourself for rejection thus far, and may meet more of the same...I do not feel that wanting pictures and wanting to know more of your life, is too much to ask for. GO FOR IT! Just be prepared for the hurt that may follow. I send this with Sincerity and Peace...
