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my vote....
Yes... I also agree it should be a letter.... rather then a call....she could have company, be sick, or in the middle of serving dinner..... with the mail it won't be so much of an abrupt intrusion and there is a way to send it so ONLY "She" can sign for it...nobody else in the family, I think it is called restricted registered mail....ask at your post office. and the signiture will come back to you so you will know "She" recieved it....the phone call can always be plan B in case you have not heard a word after a month or so.....
if you are worried they have not told family...You can simply say if the date 7-18- ---- means anything to you please call me at: or write me at:
I would like to talk with you.....but didn't want to call out of the blue.
and like everyone says....just keep it real simple....
although I "e-mailed" and found that the very best way for me.
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