"Momto 1 human 2furry"
First, I have wonderful parents. I have no negative feelings towards them for the way in which I was raised. They did the best they could with the information they had. They love me like crazy and never did anything to make me doubt that. I love them just the same and I'm so blessed God put me in their care.
However...I wish more info would have been available to them about the issues adoptees may have due to being separated from their natural mother. Also that issues really do exist! If only they had all the books and info available now back then. I might have been able to get help in dealing with issues early on.
As for books...I like these authors; Sherrie Eldridge, Joel Soll & Nancy Verrier. They have many great books that would help any aparents with insights into the adoptee's world.
Thank God there are aparents who care enough to educate themselves. You are awesome!