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Dear Bothsides,
Hi. My name's Janey. I'm a birthmother here. Welcome! :-)
I know exactly how you feel; the emptiness and regret and sorrow. I am currently searching for my daughter and son. I give you a lot of credit in expressing how you feel. It took me over 30 years to finally come to terms with the grief of reliquishing my children for adoption.
There is an emptiness there; a hole that never fills.
I empathize with what you're going through and wish you peace.
And I believe you have every right to see your daughter again.
As you said, you were young. It is easy as adults to look back in hindsight and judge our mistakes. I do it myself everyday. But learning to forgive ourselves is half the battle I think in finding peace and going on the journey back to our kids.
All good things your way today,
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Janey
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