[thanksgivingmom]

Tara, great point!

Sometimes being angry at ALL feels irrational....I think for me any anger surrounding adoption feels irrational at times - like part of TPR is signing away your right to be angry.

We're constantly reminded that we *chose* to place our child - so we must deal with what comes after - and that includes dealing with pain and hurt without the anger.

I tend to think most of my anger and frustrations are justified and rational - but I know that there are times when I've flat out been told that they're not.