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Honestly Miss - I didn't struggle with that particular issue in regards to my son. however, If I were you I would definitely not be sharing it with just anybody. And that's a tough one for me cuz I am a HUGE blabber mouth....and when things are wrong, the more I talk about it the better I feel...BUT...in this case I wouldn't. Just because I wouldn't want anyone to taint my future relationship. You very well might be back on track in - lets just say for arguments sake - 4 months...Well, do you think maybe forever your friend may think of you as "not bonded" and see evidence of it all the time (you know what I mean, we all have our less than stellar moments as mom's)
I think I'd just hate to be painted with that brush...ESPECIALLY if that person is not involved directly with adoption. Sometimes the average person just doesn't understand adoption issues.
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Leigh
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