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Realize that for your birthmom it has a different context--she feels it, but she remembers you from when she carried you and from when you were born, so it has some elements of what you feel, but it's like having her old feelings for you revived, mostly. Also, there's seeing oneself in another, and the person she loved at that time, as well--validation of self seeing the resemblance.
It's complicated, but it's because we experience all at once what normally would happen over a long period of time. Also, we may feel we might not have time together, and it all gets rushed. Make sense?
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