I didn't see a link posted yet for this important, difficult article about the ethics of International Adoption, published in the current issue of the journal 'Foreign Policy,' and which I found through via a yahoo adoption group. The author is a journalist who was herself a PAP in process to adopt a child from Cambodia, just before they shut down in 2001.
"The Lie We Love"
Worth reading, no matter where you're coming from...
-- pamcita