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Attachment for everyone really is different. I bonded and attached with my daughter before she was mine. I just knew in my heart it was meant to be.
Recently however, after talking about the boards with my DH, I found out that he just now feels attached to her. He has loved her since day one, don't get me wrong. However, he was dealing with health issues her first year and so the bodn between her and I was so strong that he felt left out. Now that he is home with her 2 days a week their bond is growing and the attachment is finally there.
Be patient, be there and it will come when the time is ready.
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Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take...but by the moments that take our breath away. - Hilary Cooper
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