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(((((bumblebeeskies))))
I know that relinquishing my son wasn't really a matter of not wanting him, it just was that in some ways I wasn't really given any other option. And this was in the mid 80's!
Of course, I'm THRILLED to have him in my life and would love to have him in my life even more, so I can't really 'get' why a birthmom wouldn't want to know?
I guess one option is that perhaps it's just too painful for her?
Maybe she's also bought into the 'must not contact you, just forget, move on' and just can't get out of it?
Only she has a chance of knowing, and perhaps she doesn't.
I'm just sorry for your sake toots!
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