[lovemy2boys]

Well, I don't know if my anger is irrational - I can always find rationale for whatever is bothering me - haha. But I have 2...

The first, most of you know about. AJ's firstmom is leaving in 6 very short weeks for Europe due to her DH's military transfer. When she first brought it up over the summer, she stressed how much she wanted to get together before she leaves so she could spend time with AJ....Nothing...She'll answer my emails from time to time and respond to everything BUT my numerous attempts to get together before she goes. And I'm angry.

My little guy was in tears the other day because we don't hear form her...I lied and told him that she emails all the time asking me to tell him that she loves him. And I know that she's busy, but darn it - if this was ME doing it to her? I'd be called the most vile names you can imagine (it's happened before).

I've asked numerous times if she wants to get together...I've also asked if there is a reason why she won't answer me about getting together. Nothing. So yeah - I'm angry. Irrational? Maybe. But maybe not.

The other one is absolutely none of my business, so my anger is definately irrational. I went on facebook this morning, and JD's firstmom and her boyfriend must have broken up yesterday, and he has written some of the most foul things about her on her page that I've ever read (it was attached to her "mood" so it popped up on my page). And he called her one name in particular and gave a REASON as to why he called her this; and I take exception with it. I know it's none of my business and I am obviously going to stay out of it, but I swear to goodness if I ever see this guy again I will knock both of his front teeth out...One for C, and one for JD. (ETA - this one is adoption related because he called her ummm integrity as well as her choices into question, if you get my drift).