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Irrational Anger
Been talking with a few birth and adoptive mom friends. Turns out that we've all been irrationally angry/upset in the past.
Examples:
1. Birth mom is pregnant.
2. Adoptive mom is pregnant or adopting again.
3. One family or the other got transferred due to a job and had to move.
You know, stuff that the other party doesn't really have a say over, a right to control and so on.
My question today is: what have you been irrationally angry over? How have you dealt with it? Did you discuss it with the other party in the interest of open and honest communication or did you deal with it on your own, fully aware that it was irrational and thus wanting to get your feelings straight before discussing the matter at all?
Thought this would be a helpful discussion to pull into this forum.
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Jenna
 Mom to two boys: Nick, 3 & Parker, 1
Writing the family side of fire life at Stop, Drop & Blog
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