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Any advice?
My bson is 23 years old, we've been in reunion for 1 1/2 years. His amom first tried to stop the reunion (by telling the mediary that my son didn't want contact, but she hadn't actually asked him!) and then getting upset because he had contact.
She seems afraid I'm going to take him away?!
I live something like 5,000 miles away (literally!), have two daughters I'm raising that are 3 and 5, how can I possibly be a threat??
Now he also has a stepmother who's been fantastic, encouraging reunion and even wants my family to come down and stay with them next time we are in the USA.
So DS tells his mom that we're coming. Response from his mom...she changes the subject.
It's hurting him!
And I don't know how to help.
I don't want to (and don't think he wants us to) to stop our reunion process.
Should I just ignore this? Hope that she gets over this (imho) childish behavior? That's my gut response. Figuring she'll come around eventually or not at all.
I think he's afraid if I directly contact her, it will be worse. I guess I can see that.
Any opinions? Advice?
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