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We've had the same problem here.
We are ALWAYS telling the Boys, play nice together or sit with your hands in your lap with nothing to play with for awhile. It took about a week of them sitting in separate corners, nothing to play with, before they 'got' the message - be nice, share, play nice, no yelling or pushing or sit facing the corner and be bored. Yes, they still have their moments, but, it has gotten better.
Follow through is the key.
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SAHM to Twin Boys  Our Journey E A C H
"It's not about the Gene Pool...It's about being bathed in love." - J. Hawkins
Signed Aug 03--->"The Call" Dec 03 --->One trip region Feb 04--->Home Mar 04 (age 8 mo)--->Re-Adoption Completed Aug 04
Talking and hearing as of April 2008 (age 5)!  DS-G, age appropriate level (end of 2008). DS-L, age appropriate level (Oct 2009).
Moved from  and were Ex-Pats/3 yrs in  xfer to  came through late, move in progress back to
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