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I"m not there yet so can't fully reply but wanted to give my 2 cents anyways. My husband is adopted at birth and I'm adopted on my father's side - neither of us have an interest in reunification. Our youngest daughter is adopted at birth, woudl it bug me a little when/if she wants to communicate w/ her biomom? Probably. Would make me worry too. But she has biosibs who were adopted at birth as well, so I've been able to track down some of them and make friends with the parents. I try to remember that love is not like addition or subtraction, but more like multiplication. Her birthmom won't ever replace me.
I have a fost-adopt toddler in the home who sees biofamily 3 days a week during the day. If we are able to adopt her this winter I'm going to need to come to terms with not the "one day" of bio family, but the regular basis of dealing with them.
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