[taramayrn]

See I don't understand the arguement of how hard it would be to have the birthparents as a "constant" in the life of your child. What about other people such as friends and family members? They are allowed to be constant in your childs life, but it's so troublesome to think of the birthparents being there as well. Not trying to argue that open adoption is the best because it's not for ever family.