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Sending you lots of support. We were in a similar situation ... the birth mother didn't sign TPR and thought the baby would be placed with relatives, but CPS was involved and so the baby went to foster care. I'm not sure if the birth mother understood that this would happen ahead of time, when she didn't sign. Like a PP said, I would encourage the DFS worker to make sure to be clear to the PBM about what will happen to the baby if she doesn't make an adoption plan.
Best of luck!
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2/07 - Started researching agencies
7/13/07 - Signed with agency
8/07 - 10/07 - Adoption put on hold
12/19/07 - Homestudy complete
2/25/08 - Officially waiting
5/29/08 - Matched!! Due 7/08
6/3/08 - Baby F born. Surprise!
6/7/08 - Adoption plan fell through 
7/11/08 - Matched! 20 month old girl and 3 month old boy
7/12/08 - The kids are in our care! Instant Family (just add water)!
3/20/09 - Finalized! We are legally, and in all other ways, a family.
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