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Brandy, I am so sorry that you have to deal (at least "inadvertently") with this BOOB. I hate to "minimize" what is going on here, but your daughter is a teenager and teenagers are notoriously "nasty" to their parents (and I don't think they "discriminate" between birth and adoptive, I bet). She may be "angry" with you right now and using some of the nonsense he spews to "justify" it, etc.
I am not a parent of a teenager yet (thank gosh!) but I think you just lead by example and by keeping the lines of communication with your daughter open and letting her know you will always be there. I don't think it's bad to "document" what is going on...if nothing else for when hopefully she is "through" this phase and you can talk to her about what happened, etc.
Hang in there!!
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