[jalapeno]

Well first off my boys have about the same age gap as yours but are younger. So I'm really thrilled to hear you say you love their age now. Maybe I shouldn't be so worried about mine then! LOL

Are both of your boys still in cribs? What about getting them really cool big boy beds? Or even just some new special sheets - "made specially for big boys who sleep in their room".

What about just moving everybody's bed/crib into the same room for a while? Then using the other bedroom for the playroom. My nephew/neices did that for a while and it wasn't long before one and then another got tired of it and they were all back in their original rooms.

How frustrating! Best of luck!