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Originally Posted by blessedbybug
My biggest obstacle has been disappointment in that the relationship has not progressed how we as adopting parents had hoped it would. And in not really having anyone to talk about this with because our situations are both quite complex. The disappointment has led to me being quite exhausted with trying to do all the work myself to keep a thread of communication open between our families.
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Blessed, thanks for this. This sums up exactly what I feel. I have even talked with a close friend on here and just recently came to this realization. I don't want to jeopardize chasing DD's BMom off so I don't tell her how frustrating it is to feel it is all one sided communication.
I also feel like Storm does that I guess once it all sank in I envisioned two Moms for DD but don't see it happening. I envisioned a commarade (so to speak) who would enjoy and express the enjoyment of the ups and downs in DD's development, life, etc.