My biggest obstacle?
Bringing up ANYTHING challenging or hard or unpleasant. Like when D doesn't respond to emails in a timely manner and how it makes me feel....I KNOW I should bring it up, but our visit was so great and I didn't want to bring it down.
Plus, I'm afraid to speak up about anything because D holds the power to close the relationship. I'm not willing to risk losing contact with them just so I can get emails back a little more quickly.
So far? I'm not real able to work through this one, but I'm trying and have found a lot of support and encouragement here
