Fat Birdy....You brought up
MANY great questions!!! I can tell you without a doubt that even though I have only seen my bdaughter at birth I still love her with all of my heart and soul.....Just as I do My other two children!!!! She is a part of me just as they are, and I have always had a tremendous love for her in my heart!!! I do also have a desire to buy her gifts and help her out financially when I can(she is in college). I don't feel as if I "should" she has wonderful parents who support her GREAT, but I just want to, because I never have been able to!!!! I guess as a mom I do have a sense of responsibilty toward her, but want to be VERY carefull not to try to "mother" her as she is 19 years old. She has a mother, and she really has not opened up enough to me to let me know what she desires me to be if anything. We have been in reunion since Feb. so things are fairly new. I CAN tell you however.....I am willing to give WHATEVER she wants me to!!!! If she wants two moms than she will have that. If she wants friendship she will have that too...The ball is in her court.....Afterall she is my child!!!!! Her feelings are
VERY important to me!!!! I hope I helped...
Staci