First off congrats. on finding and getting to meet you daughter, I am so happy for you. I am a firstmom, like yourself, and relinquished twin sons whom are now 22, and yet to find them. Having said all that, it is my humble opinion, that you should allow your daughter to meet her big sister, after filling her in on her"ways". Every person whom has been relinquished to adoption, has the basic RIGHT to meet ALL their relatives, if that is what they desire. I do not think you will want their meeting to take place until she is comfortable with the whole "family" thing......Just talk to your daughter, explain, and let the cards fall as they may...Again congrats, and blessings with the reunion...
