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Court,
I think you already made up your mind...but I would not tell the teacher that DD is adopted. It's not necessary IMO.
Yes, that you are in the process for #2 but I don't think she needs to know about DD.
As a (former) teacher myself, I do think *some* teachers, knowing that info, will make all sorts of assumptions. Even if DD is just being bratty one day (as all preschoolers are wont to do), she might think, "well, she's like this b/c she's adopted".
Just not worth it, IMO.
I guess I am "lucky" (??) in that DS looks JUST LIKE me. I mean, spitting image like me. It kinda freaks my family out! So I'll probably never offer up that info to his teachers ever.
Good luck!
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S. J. born April 05
FINALIZED lucky Friday 10-13-06 
"And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I
Would like to say to you but I don't know how...
Cause maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonder wall"
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