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Well it's pretty obvious to Anabel's pre-school teachers that she's adopted since she's a different race then DH and I! I'm not sure what I would have done if we were a less conspicious family. But I will say that one of the many reasons I love her pre-school is how pro-adoption it is. There are MANY families that are open about the fact that they were formed by adoption, and in fact the whole school is making plans to celebrate national adoption day in November! Which is not to say to the OP that she should tell the teacher - that's a personal choice - but just that at some schools adoption is not a stigma. I want my daughter to celebrate who she is and where she comes from, including the fact that she is adopted, and I'm glad her school wants to be a part of that.