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Old 10-09-2008, 09:39 AM
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Thanks. I agree, I do not want to be too forceful or come on too strong. I think I will meet with my attorney just to let her know that sil has accused me of harassment, and give my lawyer the facebook correspondence.

I am in the "let's just see what happens" mode. How could I possibly be hopeful after this? Judging from the contact from the sil & bmom, Im sure they are going to circle the wagons, so to speak, and Im sure they will do what they can to sabotage any relationships that could develop. I am prepared for any outcome.

That being said, I wont let them have power over me, nor will I allow them to manipulate me with their guilt, or allow them to diminish my needs.

I want to wait til the new year, but my overactive, and at times, paranoid imagination is yelling at me to do it now. I just have to keep telling myself that any negative statements they could make about me and my need to make contact will be proven wrong if my sibs decide to make contact with me after I send them a registered letter.

Thanks again!
Linda
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