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I agree with hrisme. If word has gotten spread through the family by you bmother and the 1/2 brothers wife, then there is bound to be some resistance. It's like trying to gain the confidence of a timid animal. Coming on strong will scare it away.
If I were to send a registered letter, I'd give some time for things to settle down before sending one to your bsiblings. I would try to keep it very low key and explain why it is important to adoptees such as us to meet those that we are biologically related to as we don't share the traits or mannerisms of our adopted families. Just don;t force things and hopefully things will turn out well.
Best wishes.
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