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Old 10-07-2008, 06:26 PM
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I'd advise you take her home for a while and see how it goes - rememberin that the sleepless nights don't last long although it feels that way. Don't worry if you don't have the right baby "gear". An old firend's mother (now very wealthy middle class) says her first born slept in a wooden draw straight after he was born as they were too poor to buy a crib! My children wear secondhand clothes. Make do while you make up your mind. Babies need very little despite what everyone tells you. They need to be warm, dry, fed on demand and loved by their mom! Take your time to make your decision, don't feel pressured. Ask the PAPs to give you a few weeks with baby. I am sure they will still want baby even if she is two or three months old. blessings
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