[blubutterflies03]

When the kids went into care, it took the birthmom 3 months of playing around and still using before she detoxed and I think she was "ordered" to go to rehab to get her kids back. She has not been rehabbing since she had her kids taken away. She has admitted to CASA that she has a serious drug problem recently, although she has stayed clean while she has been in rehab the last 4 months. My biggest concern is, she is 23 and will probably be trying to do this alone with 2 kids, and has never been on her own two feet. She was a foster child herself and has limited family to rely on. If she is ready to do this, GREAT, I hope she does it all the way. I just hope that the judge knows best when the time comes and if the birthmom is going to do this she does it whole-heartingly.