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She said she has decided they do not need to know about me at this time.
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I'm actually amazed at this statement. These are grown people that she is making decisions for! You've given her a lot of time and have shown great respect for your birthmom's wishes, but I think you need to do this for YOU.
I know it must be very difficult for your birthmom, espeically given that she was from the closed era of adoption. Has she gotten any counseling at all over the years?