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Originally Posted by cetalley
Please tell your firstmom you appreciate her on so many levels...but you have to do what is in your heart. Let her know she can always find you, when she is ready again. Life really is too short and there are no guaranteed tomorrows...GODS Blessings and my prayers...  |
Thank you so much for your perspective. I have always been very appreciative to her, because I am. I always try to never make her feel guilty, but also not rub in the fact that I did have a great life. I always was afraid to talk to much about my family, as I didnt want to appear as if I was rubbing salt in her wounds. I think it's something most adoptees do...we're so afraid to lose her again. My opinion, of course.