I am a firstmom, yet to find my twin sons, whom are now 22. I have a son who is 29, and he will be the first to tell you, how big on honesty I am. I have always said , when I find my sons...what ever they need from me I will give..honesty ..yes...! It really is about you ( the child whom had no voice)...so Please tell your firstmom you appreciate her on so many levels...but you have to do what is in your heart. Let her know she can always find you, when she is ready again. Life really is too short and there are no guaranteed tomorrows...GODS Blessings and my prayers...
