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Thank you so much for your reply!
I have really struggled with this over the years. I have tried to make sure that my motives not some deep seated revenge/spite thing, which, if that were the case, I would have contacted them years ago. I have also struggled, thinking, "Gosh- is my need for closure going to ruin an entire family?"
My friends and family have been nothing but supportive, and tell me what I know deep down- that I need these last pieces of the puzzle to feel whole & that I am a great person and deserve to be known.
My shrink thinks it's still the R word (rejection, lol) that I am afraid of, and Im sure it is. I am going to do it, but I just dont know what is the appropriate way! That being said, there may just not be an appropriate way.
Thansk again!
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