[ka3003]

Thank you so much for your input. Still, I don't understand why men struggle so much with this issue? Isn't it possible that his parents were just far too young to handle parenthood? They wanted the best for their kid so they opted for adoption. Maybe my husband wants to think the same but underneath he is worried that it is something else (i.e. he is the result of a rape) and that would be a lot worse? The reason I want to help my husband is because he has a lot of anger and I think it comes from being rejected by his birth parents. Of course I mean to do good, last thing I want is to anger him even more. Wouldn't you ever regret not finding out where you came from?