I know it is hard, but she could just be trying to get to know as much about you as possible. I think if this is not something you are comfrotable with, you should most definately be honest. If this is uncomfortable for you...listen to your heart, she may not be the one. There will be that one that comes along and you will just know. I know as a firstmom I would have wanted my twins parents to have been 100% honest. I wish you the best, I am sure this will work itself out and you will be a great Mom to a lucky child....I would be questioning her wanting to relinquish with these types of demands...so just be cautious, you will know after your visit next week...whatever you do , be honest, tell her what your expectations are and ask the same of her...the last thing anyone wants are broken promises down the road. GODS Blessings and my prayers...
