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Your heart is in the right place and that is admirable. As a 44 year old adoptee who decided on his own to start looking for his birth mother, I will add my 2 cents and that is to not get too involved.
It is such a personal issue and men seem to be a little more angry about everything that has occured. If your help can bring him to the point where he interested in finding his bmom, then that may be a good thing. If not, do not meddle in it.
My wife meddled in my adoption a bit and it hurt our relationship in a major way. Again. Just the opinion of a guy like your husband.
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