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I would not go behind his back to try to find his history. Instead, why don't you spend some time on these forums reading about other journeys. There are many spouses of adoptees that participate here that may help you find perspective.
I also believe that it is a mistake to embark upon a search with any expectations either positive or negative. As an adoptee, your husband deserves to know his biological, geneological and medical history if he wishes to have it, apart from a relationship with his biological parents.
Good luck and welcome to the boards!
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Paige
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