Some places to check :)
We haven't been in your situation (beyond the ttc forever with no success). I pray to one day have the ability to adopt a child... which is why we're going through the foster care process (with hopes of adopton).
I'm new to the site but have found a TON of women on here who have adopted and so on... check out the foster/adopt forums (not state related). You'll be pleasantly surprised.
I also read/write on preconception.com/diaries. There are a few diary writers there who have experienced mighty difficult ttc periods, if you need support there. There is an adoption portion to that website, but there are no current diary writers there (we will eventually be transfered there, since we gave up ttc late last year).
Hope that helps 
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~Amanda~
Wife (10.14.05) to Eddie
Mommy of two pups,
Maddux (8.22.04) & Wrigley (11.7.05)
Initial inquiry late July 08
Backgrounds back 8.9.08
Classes (foster/adopt) 10.16-11.22
finished cpr/first aid/universal precautions 12.13.08
packet finally submitted 12.30.08
references in 2.09
dcs restructured... urg. 4.09
homestudy done, whoo hoo! 7.27.09
fingerprints done 8.09
final homestudy scheduled 9.21.09
license processed and completed 10.2.09
And...
Praises to God who sent us a precious healthy newborn a week after licensing! Amazing. 
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