My bdaughter is always on my mind. In our experience, bdaughter was very nervous about making contact at first, but was extremely happy she did! She was able to get all of the answers she needed and found out that things were a lot different than she expected. She was able to let go of a lot of anger.
IMO.... you will never know if you don't ask! The whatifs and wondering can drivie ya nuts!
Good luck to you and your journey!
