Aww patience...what is the saying..?...(virtue)...oh yeah thats it. My take is just this one. My significant other(twins Dad)and I made the decision to relinquish. We lasted 16 1/2 yrs then divorced. Relinquishment was 85% of our split. I could never get past him not providing for us so I could keep them. All relationships have their ups and downs...patience,..divorce, job loss, anger, abuse, alcohol, drugs...just a few of the things that ,..yes even parents who choose to adopt go through. There are no guarantees, regardles of whom you are.....Make sure this is what YOU want ! Thats my rant for the day...
