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I'd love to know any resources you have found since you posted this about failed adoptions. My husband and I recently had one and are still dealing with all the emotions that come with it. It amazes me how many times we have heard in the past month, "well it wasn't God's plan" "there will be another baby out there for you" or "well maybe this is God's way of telling you to do IVF instead" all of which infuriates me. He was still going to be ours and now he's not. We loved him and were preparing for him. I do agree with previous posts that to me it feels like a miscarriage except now we have his pictures to go along with the pain.
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