[danhanan]

Our DD's bmom got angry at us and tried to revoke the adoption. Apparently she went to a couple of different lawyers and was told the same thing. There was nothing that she could do because she had signed relinquishment. She tried to say that she wasn't in the right mental state to have signe and she tried to say that she was coerced and tricked. The truth is this....she dropped DD off with us when she was eigt weeks old. After a year, she decided that the best thing was for us to adopt. It was a 6 month process that she actively participated in. We all went to court together and the judge told her before she signed that she needed to be sure that it's what she wanted because once she signed that paper there was no turning back, that there was nothing she could do. That was 6 years ago. However, even knowing that and gtting reassurance from our lawyer, my nerves were very unsettled for a while. I even spoke to her lawyer about it and got the same reassurance. So, try to relax, and don't call her. You'll only be feeding into it.