[mdesi]

Originally Posted by aclee

I know YOU didn't day this, but this line of thinking makes me want to vomit. If taking a baby home for 10 measley days would change a mother's mind would you actually WANT that baby still? When M didn't want Tyler to go to cradle care she was encouraged by all to bring him home till she TPR'd and we went to court. She didn't do that for various reason on her part. If the mother changes her mind because she took the child home, that was never your child...it was always hers.

that kind of thinking really makes me angry...like they are trying to protect the aparents from the "risk" that bmom will change her mind by limiting the time bmom spends with her child.

Aclee, I'm sorry if I misunderstood that you were stating that the OP said these things. I guess from reading your first sentence, and your questions, I jumped the gun to infer that you were attacking the OP as the one that stated these things. I'm not sure where I could have thought that, so I'm sorry, I guess.