[annaguat]

I am so sorry this happened. Too painful!

Maybe when you are able to do so let MIL know how painful if was. I agree with the other poster about crying if you need to even if it is in front of her. I don't know her but if it is not in character for her maybe it was nervous laughter.

I also think many people just do not realize how much we love our children even if they are not home yet. Ariana's untimely death makes me cry too.

As for the person that gave the girl gift, I can't imagine anyone doing that on purpose. Who knows what went on in her life but still she was as thoughtful as to get you a gift for your child eventhough she messed it up. It seems a lot of thought went into the gift, card and present. Maybe see that as the true gift.

Hugs, Anna