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I think the friend didnt realize. I will give her that. In my honest opinion I think the MIL did not think much of it because maybe in her eyes your daughter was not really your daughter. People dont get adoption unless its affecting them. I lost Mateo after 4 months and a long visit trip alone with him. I was devestated. My husband couldnt speak. He is a man who never shows anyone emotions. He was devestated. No one understood this. My own parents didnt get it. My freinds and family didnt get why I was so upset. When we got Antonio I heard such stupid comments on how better I should feel. I heard things like "see he is probably better for you guys anyway". I think about him everyday. I wonder how that little boy is and its almost 3 years. Ignorance is a great gift but not one we have to accept.
I am sorry for you. Happy Birthday to your Angel and happy 5 months to your little man.
Patty
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