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Our birthmom did not tell her other children about the pregnancy. She does not want them to know. At first she did not want to meet us, but decided she wanted to before signing. She came to our house. I am so glad we met her. She clearly loves our baby and it is obvious how hard it was for her to place. It is her choice to not have contact. I think it would be too painful and we will not infringe on her by contacting her.
However, she has our contact info. I would suggest sending a letter. I'm not sure I would include photos and I would be very cautious of what you write. What if her other kids open it?
Also, you may want to include a return receipt notification. That way you know it got delivered. Nothing she has to sign for, only acknowledgment that it was delivered.
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