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Our agency told us that when ICPC was cleared through the birthstate that we could leave that state and travel anywhere we wanted as long as we did not enter our home state until ICPC cleared there. We plan to go to my motherinlaws after the birthstate clears us to leave so we don't have to stay far from home the whole time. She lives about 25 minutes away from our home in another state, so for us it will work out well, because we won't have to be soooo far away from home.
I hope you hear something soon. I too believe that I would not want to jeapardize the adoption after waiting so long, by coming home when we aren't supposed to. As long as we have been waiting, I actually look forward to that time away and the time we get to spend with our new baby.
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1st DD Hannah Nicole
received her wings, July 03 
2nd DD May 94  
12yr ttc
Began adoption July 07
Possible match family placement Oct. 07
Fell through Nov. 07 
Jan. 08 Got call ....not chosen by emom
03-07-08 Matched - emom due March 11th
Call 03-08-08, lead 4 families to think they were going to parent her baby 
Call 03-10-08, she wasn't even pregnant 
Waiting again.
03-17-08 Had to turn down baby girl, couldn't get flight before discharge
Our hearts are breaking and waiting again.
04-29-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due in June
06-17-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due July 6th
Profiled 07-18-08 for emom due in Nov. - emom decided to parent 08-25-08
Profiled 07-25-08 for emom due in Oct. - never heard back from emom
Profiled 08-12-08 for emom due in Sept. - never heard back from emom
Trying not to get discouraged, but getting more difficult every day.
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