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It sounds like they are probably sad and are buying him things ... maybe so he'll "remember" them? I would continue to reassure them that they don't _need_ to buy him things, but also show them appreciation for wanting to spend money on him, because it sounds like it's done out of love. When they ask what he needs, I would say something along the lines of "he doesn't need anything right now, but we'd LOVE to be able to visit with you on Saturday, just so he can spend time with you!"
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2/07 - Started researching agencies
7/13/07 - Signed with agency
8/07 - 10/07 - Adoption put on hold
12/19/07 - Homestudy complete
2/25/08 - Officially waiting
5/29/08 - Matched!! Due 7/08
6/3/08 - Baby F born. Surprise!
6/7/08 - Adoption plan fell through 
7/11/08 - Matched! 20 month old girl and 3 month old boy
7/12/08 - The kids are in our care! Instant Family (just add water)!
3/20/09 - Finalized! We are legally, and in all other ways, a family.
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