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Old 09-11-2008, 07:05 AM
Jackiejdajda Jackiejdajda is offline
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China.. your basic decision is to keep the baby or give it up.. and I urge you to not make the decision before the birth..
And don’t run from the decision by making things in your path that allows others to make the decision for you..

If the father of the baby wants to keep the baby then he goes to a lawyer and finds out what to do..

Not on you.. if you keep the baby you go to a lawyer and name him as the father he has acknowledged he is the father.. The law will get the child support off of him..

If your parents want to raise the baby that is another decision.. but if your parents or family want to manipulate your decision by giving you negative remarks.. understand that this is what is going down..

There is a saying in twelve steps.. keep it simple..

Lawyers.. law.. rights..

Jackie
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