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Does your son know that he is adopted? I guess that would be a big question for me to even begin to understand where he and you are at in all of this. If he does know I would tell him that you are waiting for the most perfect little baby to come along so he can have a perfect little brother/sister!! And if he doesn't know, well then I spose i would either try and involve him in packing and wrapping up all the baby stuff or just one day put it all away in a safe place while he isn't there and I know that sounds really mean but, he will get over it, I had to do the same things with Z's pink blanket this year and now he will only occasionally ask for it but otherwise he's fine without it and it doesn't bother him. Maybe being surrounded by his baby stuff is kinda like Z's security blanket?
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